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You are single for what reason?
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I am very curious as to why some of the male members of this site are songle.....My guess would be because of the way they talk/ behave, etc. when it comes to a woman and how she looks.
I was clicking through the pages on this site, reading the comments that were posted by others regarding a picture somebody posted...........
These women know they are beautiful, they don`t need to be reminded of that, they see it every time they look in the mirror but at the same token, every woman as does every man for that matter, like to hear somebody pay a compliment. Whether it be how she looks, her thoughts, etc, etc, etc.........
However, posting a comment is one thing but do we as men absolutely need to "Dog out" on every good looking woman we see? It is as though some of these men have never seen a beautiful woman before.
Would they say such comments to these women if they were directly in front of them? My guess would be "NO" because they know full well they would be shot down right away and couldn`t face the humiliation or rejection so they save their comments for online that way when they don`t get a reply, get shot down or humilitated they are still able to face the monitor and proudly move on to the next woman.
We all know full well that the men that talk down in such a way to these women would never dream of doing so to their mother or sister and heaven forbid they have an attractive daughter and some man started talking to her the way they talk to women they would be the first ones to take the gloves off and have a good game of "smash mouth". They can not deny that either for if they did allow some man to talk to their daughters that way it just shows that they temselves are not men but poor excuses for human beings. Come on guys, grow up, act your age and show a little bit of respect, at the very least try to act your ages rathar than your shoes sizes.
I anxiously await any and all comments to this, please feel free to speak your minds..after all you certainly don`t have any problems doing so with the women here. |
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Love....Virtual or Real?
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When it comes to love and relationships with those abroad which we meet online, where do we draw the line? Is there even a line to be drawn?
I have witnessed people bickering back and forth, threatening hysical violence against each other in the name of what they call " love". Love for/ with somebody online they have never met and most likely never will meet. But heaven forbid somebody new come along and show any form of attention to somebody that is "already spoken for"
I find it hilarious actually when I see or hear people talk about how madly in love they are with somebody online that they have not met. Granted some relationships online have become a realty and to those who have built solid relationships........my hat`s off to them, if they can do it them more power to them, they deserve it.
But for those that who have their life revolve around their virtual boyfriend or girlfriend....get a grip on reality........... Before professing your undying love for each other, before proposing and eccepting a wedding angagement....get a grip, grow up already, try something new that we in the sane world like to call life. Best part is..It`s free, absolutely free.
At least have the gumption, maturity and common sense to meet each other and go from there. Meeting is the initial foundation which will build a solid relationship or it will tell you flat out that this isn`t the one and that as much as you feel you just blew your saving on travelling abroad for nothing...look on the bright side there are some that haven`t been across town or out of their city let alone travel abroad you there`s the sights and experiences to consider. |
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Is it love, lust or infactuation with the feeling of being in love?
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When it comes to love each and every one of us have different variations of what it truly means. Honestly though, what does love mean?
For some they can only describe love as something they experience such as an emotion, such emotions can be very difficult to describe. It can range from a deep warm sensation filling inside, now is that in our hearts or in our souls? I don`t know the answer to that, All I know is that it is a wonderful feeling not just loving somebody but being in love with somebody. With this comes the racing heart, the stomach doing flip flops, the tingling of the arms and legs and although some of these symptoms are similar with those of certain medical ailments they really are a good bunch of symptoms to have.
Then there are those that are "in love" with the idea of love...They wear their hearts on their sleeves wishing to be loved and in turn think or feel that they also love. There`s not a person alive that has not gone through this at one point in their life time, it is a part of life and there`s nothing we can do about it but we can do something about how we manage or control that aspect of life. There are those that will do anything to be noticed by that person they want to be with, some will literally go broke showering others with gifts, some will lose their jobs because they would rather be with somebody than do the right thing and go to work when required to do so while others will go too far with showing their affection that it comes close to if not crossing the lines where somebody feels threatened. It doesn`t mean that this person infactuated with the perspective person is intending to be a threat of any sort but the word "stalking" does come to mind whether intentional or not some don`t care for that and it only pushes others away and can result in legal actions. I know I sure wouldn`t be to impressed with that happening to me. In fact, I think I would most likely be a little paranoid, I think Hollywood made a movie about that "Fatal Attraction".
Next we have lust...........I understand that regardless of what anybody says a persons physical appearance will always play a major role in any perspective relationship. I don`t care if somebody says that looks do not matter, anybody that tries to tell me that I call a liar because we as people, as part of the animal kingdom can not help it, it is nature, beauuty attracts. Simple as that. It is the very first thing we notice of a person, whether it be a persons hair, face, body type, etc. once we overcome that person beauty ( male or female beauty) we begin to acknowledge that there is also an inner beauty, that inner beauty can range from a warm amd loving heart consisting of kindness, affection, well nautred personality all the way to somebody`s intellect.
What we as members of the "animal kingdom" must do is remember that we are not just animals but also HUMAN giving us the ability to differentiate lust and love. We have already covered the aspect of love but where do we draw the line when it comes to `lust` Many people are unable to get beyond lust, I feel bad for those people because those are the ones that are unable to commit or at least open themselves up to commit to a serious relationship with one person, instead they frequent such places as bars and night clubs in the hopes of simply being able to add another notch to the bed post. That is no way to live. That is not what was intended for humans. Humans are the only species on earth that actually fornicate for no reason other than to fornicate. All other species procreate with the sole pupose of going forth, multiplying, etc. If that is all humans where intended to do than why is it that we do feel such things as love, hurt, pain and sorrow?
I am very curious to see what others have to say about this blog, I anxiously await input from others. |
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